Love & Respect
1/24/2011 01:02:00 PMSHE'LL FEEL YOU'RE TRYING TO UNDERSTAND HER WHEN....
- you listen and can repeat back what she said.
- you don't try to "fix her problems" unless she specifically asks for a solution.
- you try to identify her feelings.
- you never dismiss her feelings, no matter how illogical they may seem to you.
- you say,"I appreciate your sharing that with me."
- you don't interrupt her when she's trying to tell you how she feels.
- you apologize and admit you were wrong.
- you cut her some slack during her monthly cycle.
- you see something that needs to be done and you do it without a lot of hassle.
- you express appreciation for all she does:"Honey, I could never do your job."
- you pray with her and for her.
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